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It seems that these days common names such as Tom, Dick and Harry are not as popular as they were before. A few years ago, however, these three names were the ones who were the most popular and common, much like the name Michael is right now.
But is there a real reason why Michael should be so popular? And what is the reason for certain names being so popular at all? One easy explanation for this phenomenon is that soon to be parents tend to search for Birth announcements in newspapers, and will usually choose one of the more common names, in hopes that their child will be popular. But this explanation is not satisfactory.
In a survey that was conducted among a large sample of the populations, in order to find out people's thoughts and opinions on over 1500 popular names, an interesting pattern presented itself: Those names which were the most popular and common, seemed to affect peoples attitude towards a person carrying them. Specifically, these names created a feeling that one who carried them is more likely to have a number of positive attributes.
Here are some of the attributes associated by the survey results to common and popular names for boys:
David: good looks, sense of humor, strength, intelligence, reliable.
Steve: A good person, good looks, a sense of humor, friendly, fun to be around, strong
Daniel: handsome, strong, brave, nice, reliable, smart, easy going, all-american.
Michael: intelligent, successful, hard working, strong, good looking
Other names, so it is apparent through the survey results, send out a mixed message:
Harry: Funny and happy OR bad tempered and serious
Dick: opinionated, vulgar and cocky OR friendly and easy going
Tom: likeable, self esteemed, down to earth but average.
This shows us why parents tend to choose those names, with more positive attributed associated with them. It is no wonder that parent would rather give their child a name which projects the most positively upon them.
Nevertheless, there are important issues about choosing a very popular name for you child, which are not to be ignored. Where ever the child may go they will encounter several more children or adults carrying the same name as theirs. There might be 2 or 3 of them in their class, and they may be led to believe their name is not unique, and be troubled by this issue. This specific problem can be overcome by slightly changing a certain popular name in a way that will signify the name from all others – for example:
The name Daniel can be altered to Dane – attributed to this name are these qualities: tall, athletic Scandinavian self assured.
Davis, instead of David can be – quiet, upper class, mischevious, quiet.
Mickey, as a variation of Michael can be – fun, light headed, cute and somewhat silly.
As you can see a slight change makes a huge difference in what message our names send across. No doubt, the best vibes will come from a name which is popular, and this should be taken into consideration when deciding on your baby's name.
A good idea might be to check with friends and family members what they think of the name in general, or consult a baby-name book which discusses the subject of subjective impressions of different names.
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