I still say dont give up, my sister has narcolepsy and cataplexy, sorry if i didnt spell them right, and other health problems. I dont know why, but the doctors told her she would never be able to have kids with out the help of fertility drugs. She has two lil boys and never went to the doc for help, it just happened. If you do end up adopting that would be great too!!!

took my mom 6 years to have me

Well i went back to my doctors office and he has upped the mg of fertility drugs he has me on chlomid and ugh i cant remember the name of the other but i was on 100mg and he bumped me to 150mg and he says if im not pregnant in one month we'll do the procedure but i dont have the money for artifical insimination but around here it costs 16000 dollars and i cant afford that lol but my husband and i are not going to give up....

i stopped thinking about it and it happened. my friends kept telling me that it will happen and i need to stop stressing because stress isn't good for baby making. i am 30 and finally having our first baby

Don't give up. It took us 2 years. And then after we stopped actively trying, 6 months later it just happened. And I absolutely believe that I got pregnant because I stopped stressing over getting pregnant. Stress and worry tells your body "Now would not be a good time to make a baby."
And by all means, have that procedure done next month if you need to. It's always better to know as much as you can about your body in my opinion.
Sending you lots of baby dust. Best of luck to you.

Mandi

lol thanks for the baby dust mandi but my doctor wont do the procedure untill i try for another 4 months he's the one who makes me stress he actually really makes me mad and aggrivated. and im not sire really if im stressing over it like when were being intimate thats not really what im thinking about i dont know how to explain it. I dont stress about it but once were done its something i think about but not necessarily stress ugh its so hard to explain lol. i can honestly say i dont stress though the only time i stress is when i miss a period and i take the test and it says negative that stresses me aggravates me hurts me all these emotions wrapped into one ugh...... heres praying cross your fingers!!!