So as long as you have a uterus, an ovary, a tube, and a man, don't lose hope.

love it! that was the best advice. thanks so much and you ladies are right. everyone says that this was the beginning of something even more awesome in store for us. i believe it. they also say, dont worry about getting pregnant, have fun in the process, don't stress, and it will happen. turns out, according to docs, this was a lab error, so the idea that i never conceived makes it hard, bc I had some hope that is was possible. I know that no matter what from that moment on I became a mother and will forever be.

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So sorry to hear that and sorry for your loss. I would like to share a story with you that might give you hope. My sister and her husband were thrilled to find out they were pregnant with their first child. Unbeknownst to them my sister had an incompetent cervic and could not carry through the third trimester. She gave birth to her stillborn daughter around 4 months into her pregnancy, but at that time the doctors did not know the real reason why she gave birth so early. A couple of years later they found out she was pregnant again and you can only imagine how happy they were. This time she almost made it to five months before she gave birth, but the baby was not developed enough to survive. She buried two children in a couple years time and was begining to give up hope. But with this loss the doctors were able to discover that she had a weak cervix, and informed her that if she got pregnant again she would have to have it sewn immediately so she could carry full term. They tried and tried for years after the second baby, but could not get pregnant. They went to a fertility specialist and found out that the husband was having problems producing. So they selected a donor and she finally got pregnant. She was at this point also seeing a specialist for her specific problem. They went through with the procedure and about 7 months later she gave birth to a healthy baby boy. With all the trouble they had they were so happy to have their son that they were no longer concerned with having more children and thought they would only have one. Two years later she was pregnant again and with the same procedure she gave birth to another healthy baby boy. The doctors had told them that once they stopped stressing over having a baby that it would happen and it did with their youngest. So I guess the only advice I can offer is to not give up, but also don't stress over wanting to get pregnant. I don't know much about your situation, but if you got pregnant once, I believe it can happen again. You will never forget what you lost, but you will feel better with time! Best of luck to you!

This was beautiful and has given me more hope than I have had in awhile. I am doing much better and I agree that it can happen. With time. Time heals all wounds as someone said, and not just that, time brings forth what is to come. I know something great will happen and I cannot wait to see what God has in store.