Hey guys!

I haven't been on in so long! How is everyone? I have been busy taking care of the girls, Mia is now 2 1/2 and Kate is now almost 10 months old! It's crazy how fast time flys by.

So the reason for this post. Josh, my boyfriend and the girls father, brought up trying for another baby. We haven't planned a pregnancy so far, both of my pregnancy were a surprise for us. I am 18, 19 in July and I have a total of 4 kids, 2 aren't here with anymore, they passed away. I am all for having more kids but I don't know if im ready. Im in nursing school and Josh will be going to grad school to become a lawyer next year. He wants to try for a boy and wants all the kids to be close in age. Which I would love for them to be close in age too. Do you think im crazy if we have another child right now? We just moved into our own 4 bedroom house down the street from my parents house and Josh has a stable job but im afraid I wont have time for another baby! HELP!

Awww, Mia and Kate are getting so big! It doesn't seem like 10 months ago when you were announcing Kate's birth. I'm sure Ava and Brad are looking down on them - and you and Josh - everyday.

Question for you, are you ready for another baby?

haha at first I thought you were pregnant again.

Maybe wait a few more months or another year to discuss it, let Kate get past the year mark at least. Give it some time to grow on you before you take trying for another child seriously.

18 with 2 children and school?? Wow! I really have to give you props!

I had my 1st daughter, Ava, just a few days after my 16th birthday I know how hard that was with 1, I can't imagine if I had 2 at 18. I waited 5 years between my oldest and my twins, but now I'm pregnant with my 6th!

I think if YOU'RE ready for another one then go ahead and try however if you don't want one yet then wait a bit!

As much as you want it, I'd say it's definitely better to wait. I think you're the best mom imaginable, Chels, you're so mature, are working on getting a career as Josh will be too, you've had jobs and now your own house too. You seem a lot older than you are, and when we talk I can tell you love the girls so much. But in the end you are only 18. I'd say give it some more time, at least until you know you're 100% certain it's the right thing to do. You're both young and have plenty of time for more babies. If I were you I'd say to wait until you're done with school and you know exactly where you stand, then you would have had more time with Mia and Kate. Really, just think things through and make a definite decision that both you and Jost completely agree on.

Love to you, your girlies and Josh xxx

Another thing I thought of..

You've had 2 set of twins so far, so I'd expect another set of twins.. Can you handle 2 more babies??