can any one tell me if its selfish of me not to keep the baby cause its gonna be my 3d one but my boyfriend's 1st one.im afraid what people my say but my boyfriend begged me to keep the baby.im so confused. plz give advice

How can you not keep it when you've already had 2?

I'm not trying to be nasty just don't understand!

Don't worry about what other people think. What exactly are you worried about anyway? If your boyfriend has made it clear he wants to have the child with you, then why would you put worrying what other people think over what you and him think?

All the best!

i have a boy and girl they father died 3years ago.so now i have a boyfriend and i fell pregnant and i feel that i wont be able to cope with it because his parents dont approve our relationship and i dont think a child would be right now

Thanx Shann i Understand whatyou saying its just things is getting to much for me to handle

I hope you can come to a decision which is right for you and your boyfriend, and I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It must be tough! If only life was full of yes or no answers for everything.

All the best for figuring out what to do, I know it must be hard on you. Having a boyfriend who is going to be there and love you and your children (assuming you two are serious) might not be such a bad thing, though. I totally see your confudion in this, I just hope you can be at peace with what you choose to do.

All the best