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CONFUSED!! :(
By Katiex92 3 Years, 7 Months Ago
I am pregnant but now my boyfriend is being really weird. At first he was fine with it but now he says that I am too young to have a baby and he keeps saying things to put me off having it. I just don't know what to do anymore. I am so confused. Has anyone been in the same situation and can anyone give me some advice??
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Re:CONFUSED!! :(
By AshleyDawn24 3 Years, 7 Months Ago
Just follow your heart and do what you feel is right. Dont worry about him. Hopefully he will eventually come around because a child is the best thing in the world and a lot of times they bring people together. So just keep holding on to hope. This baby is a part of you already, don't let your boyfriends actions allow you to make a bad decision. We'll be praying for you!
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By jennypenny 3 Years, 7 Months Ago
he's probably just getting really emotional and freaked out that it's really happening. some guys can be like that, it's soooo frustrating. he is realizing that this is it, and that his priorities are suddenly changing. sometimes the idea of having a baby sounds great and then when you are actually having one, you click in that this is gonna change everything. men can get freaked out thinking that they won't be important to you anymore compared to the baby, that you'll change, money, stress, everything.
just reassure him that this is a WONDERFUL thing, make an effort to listen to him and talk about ho he feels, and do so with a calmness and in a rational way. everyone gets scared sometimes! the most important thing is YOUR CHILD and taking care of yourself, so if he doesn't smarten up, remember that you are strong and you've got support!
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