My kids have a friend who lives about twenty minutes away they have 4 kids with another on the way but the oldest has cerebal palsy but a couple of weeks ago on jan the 13th to be exact i got a call that there 2 year old Rhea has passed away from meningites but then feb the 9 th i got a call that it was an illness called invasive group a strepoccocol disease. The kids have been down twice now but this time they are gonna go to the cemetery to see Rhea. Yet there oldest Courtney dislikes people going to see Rhea if she can't go so what do i do ? Also how do you explain to a 7 year old that no matter where she is Rhea is with her where ever she is she won't eat won't sleep coz she is scared she will upset rhea?

perhaps ask ur friend how she spoke to her young children about it.. or seek professional help they can help alot.. or in your own words just explain that she is no longer with yous and shes up in heaven with the angels and she is looking down on her and will always be apart of her foreva..
hope this helped a lil bit