That doesn't mean anything, my husband has a lot of it on his computer, most of was sent to him by e-mail.
The only thing i don't like is when he starts watching it with my kids, even though they are not that young (and they've probably seen worse, we never know nowadays porn is pretty commun)i don't think it's right.
But don't over react it's perfectly normal it's just a bunch of videos and pictures!

-Kim

well heres my opinion on it
if my boyfriend or husband whatever. was watching it i would actually be disgusted and gutted i dont know how you women do it. i would feel like im not good enough in bed. so i dont agree with porn and id definately not watch it with him either and im 23 not some child

I found porn on my fiance's laptop a week after we got engaged. (I, too, wasnt snooping...it was just there.) We had been in a long distance relationship, and so I thought maybe he had been using it for those purposes. That didnt make it ok by any stretch, porn disturbs me and makes me feel unesirable.....so I confronted him, an he denied knowing about it - blamed it on his cousin, who was his roomate. I bought it, or I chose to believe it. Fast forward two months later...I move to where HE lives, and I found more porn...this time downloaded to his limewire account. I wont get graphic, but all of this porn was of things he would tell me he wanted to do with me.....he, again, blamed it on his cousin. My gut is that he is lying. Our sex life has been majorly effected by it. I know what your going through, and be prepared for him to deny it!!

I would have to agree with Tina about feeling digusted and undesirable. I've had the unpleasant experience of finding it on my computer twice, but at the time we lived with another guy and my hubby said that the other guy was the one looking it up. I can't prove who was actually looking at it, but the other guy also stole my underweaar and broke into our bedroom (with a locked door) while I was sleeping (Thank god I woke up) so who knows it might have been his.

Anyways back to my point, since our roommate moved out I haven't found anything on our computer, and I have checked the history and all that stuff before simply because I wanted to know if hubby was looking at it, and just didn't want to tell me. Granted he knows better now, since the second time I found it, I just about walked out before he stopped me. In my opinion though watching porn, is on just about the same level as cheating, since in my mind it pretty much means that he's aroused by someone else, and I just happen to be the only thing there with a kitty, and thats a better option than his hand. I don't like porn, and hubby knows I don't like it. Yes, we have had arguements about it since he thought that all men looked at it, and had to look at it. But I will not put up with it, and he hasn't looked at it since, that I know of, but I would think he knows better, because if I catch him he knows thats a deal breaker.

So if it were me, I would confront him about it, and tell him it really bothers you, and that he has to do something to change it because of how it makes you feel.

Ok I think you are over reacting a little. I do feel it to be a little disrespectful for the man in your life to be watching porn HOWEVER... you said your self you were 17 when you started dating him and he was 30!!! So as for you questioning his parenting....that is rediculous!! He obviously just likes younger women (still legal though). All I'm saying is if you are going to be upset...be upset about the porn watching not what kind of porn it is!

Have you confronted him about it? Because if you haven't, you know darn well he's just going to blame you for going through his stuff and "invading his privacy"...

I see nothing wrong with watching porn - we watch it, regularly... I think it does depend on what kind, but either way porn is porn. I can guarantee you your husband is only turned on by her "kitty cat" I don't think these men fantasize about the $luts they see in porn - unless you yourself look like a pornstar lol

The thing is, all men probably do this, I caught my husband "red handed" and didn't care, I thought it was funny. Having your hubby watch some fetish porn is much better than him going out and cheating on you with say, a 19 year old? Right? So I would be thankful that hubby hasn't done that, you can't take the boy out of the man ... and men/boys are horny. plain and simple.

I don't think you should be offended, or hurt, as much as it would've been nice for him to just tell you he had porn on his computer, he might be scared of your reaction too...