hi all well i posted on here a few weeks back asking for advice on if my hubbie and i should try for baby number 4. so after numerous discussions a hospital admission for our son, some more discussions on if one parent would be able to handle 3 kids at home whilst Gabe is in hospital etc and looking at our financial situation. we have decided to unofficially trying for baby number 4. We have decided we arent going to go out of our way to have sex any more than usual in hope that we would get pregnant but have decided we will stick to our usual routine within the household and just remove contraception (we stopped the pill about 6 months ago as i felt it was messing with my hormones a bit too much for my liking, so my husband was using condoms as our only form of protection) so in saying this if we havent conceived by about october this is when we will officially try to conceive by making time to have sex more often in hope we get pregnant. wish us luck, im hoping that by just not stressing over trying to get pregnant we will be more relaxed and therefore make this process easier. Wish us luck!

Congrats on making a decision on TTC, good luck with it and have fun while trying

Best wishes!