Well the way i see. i see it if they wanna go it they are gonna it doesnt matter what you say i have the talk but by 16 i will already do it and put her on the pill or buy him condoms and tell em not to do it in my house ever again or they will have hell to pay

If they want to have sex then nothing is going to stop them. Thats a fact. And, to be honest, I'd rather have them doing it in my own house then in the back of his car or in an allyway or at a randoms house. BUT I'm not a mother so by the time I have kids I'll probably change my ideas about sex a whole lot lol.

But I wouldn't interrupt or stop them. That would make the situation worse I think. So I would talk to my kid about birth control and the other kids mom to make sure they're on board with the birth control etc etc. I would also make a big deal about the possibility of pregnancy and all that. But I think at the end of the day, banning sex and getting angry will make them more determined and angry.

well in my family we have been like fair chilled with it like i have know about sex a lot longer than my friends because i have older siblings so i would hear them talking bout it etc. our parents have always been that they dont mind us doing it just as long as we dont feel like we are being rushed or for the boys that they arent pressuring the girl into doing it. and that we should always use protection and what the consequences would be if we did not use protection, for us girls it would be raising a child/children and for the boys it would be support the girl and the child/children.

we have always had rules about it in the house though like if you had your gf/bf over and you thought it was a possiblilty that they would sleep together that they shut the door and we have to knock first if not our fault if we walk in and them. but yehh its always been fair chilled in our house like our parents knew if we wanted to do it we would no matter what they said

although i would have no idea how i would react if i was put in the situation of seeing my child having sex. but yeh thats just what happens in my household

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If they want to have sex then nothing is going to stop them. Thats a fact. And, to be honest, I'd rather have them doing it in my own house then in the back of his car or in an allyway or at a randoms house.

AAAHHHH i dont know how to do the whole quote thing! oh well

So true katie.