Hi! My name is Ashley. Obviously I am new to this site. Actually I am not really new I just finally decided to register haha. When my fiance's sister found out she was pregnant we got on this site for some name ideas. She still has not decided btw. And ever since I have became almost addicted to reading these forums. I love to hear the advise you ladies give.

So I said I needed advise and I do!!! I do not have kids nor am I pregnant but I absolutely love love love babies and kids and my fiance and I want 2 or 3. I am actually going to college to persue a degree in Early Childhood Development and I plan to open a daycare. I am halfway there . I have 2 beautiful neices... Aniya Faith (2 and a half) and Aliyah Grace (2 months). They mean the world to me so I can only imagine how I will love my own.

Anyway, for the past few years I have had a lot of problems with my girly parts. I have not had a period in almost 2 years! YEAH crazy i know! I had biopsies done and it has been discovered that my weird body does not ovulate! Maybe once in a blue moon but that is it! I just don't and no one knows why. So pretty much I will have to be on birth control the rest of my life to flush my body correctly. So sadly I do not know if or when I will ever be able to have babies.

So here is where I need your advice. The doctor gave me meds to take for 10 days. These meds will push me into a period since I cannot have one on my own. And from there I start my birth control. She stressed and stressed that we...MAKE SURE HE WEARS A CONDOM during those 10 days bc with all the hormones I could easily become pregnant. When I told him he said so let's do it. Let's make a baby. We have our own home and jobs. We are financially stable BUT I am only 19, he is 22, and I am afraid I will end up dropping college if we do have a baby although I really really want a baby and I just know I would be a wonderful mom. I know that they can always gve me fertility drugs later but seriously this may be our only chance to conceive. Whether it works or not...should we try?

Well hunny that's totally up to you weather your ready or not you can still do school and be a mum plenty of woman do it. i just turned 20 and im 8 months pregnant with my first so to me 19 isn't that young there are plenty of girls younger doing it if you think its your only chance and you really want to do it go for it if need be leave school for a year and then go back that's what im doing and i couldn't be happier with the decision ive made


Steff

Did they say anything bad will happen if you DO get pregnant? If not, then it's your decision.

I am 25yrs old with a beautiful 4yr old boy named Levi. I am currently in the early days of my second pregnancy. I was planning to go to uni next year (didn't finish school or get uni entrance but at 25 can apply) and study either a bachelor or arts or get a degree in psychology but am going to put if off for another 5yrs (own personal choice of wanting to be home with my kids). I would highly encourage you to take this chance to become pregnant though, like you said it could be your only chance. My friend is at uni and has a two year old girl called Tahlia, it's doable, hard- but doable. She struggles but knows it will all be worth it in the end for her and her little girl (she doesn't have a hubby like me to be able to rely on and I babysit Tahlia for her). If you can get another family member or friend to help you out, it would be a very wonderful and exciting possibility of a new life in you and your fiance's lives
Good luck to you!!
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Justice

hiya im not a mum nor am i pregnant but i am a uni student and i know you can do uni part time, full time or externally (this is where you can watch your classes/lectures online you are then given the assignments in the post and when you have completed them you post them back to the uni)

you could look at all of these options and a lot of uni's are willing to work around your needs i know a few of the uni's here in australia have childcare centres for those students who are parents so theiy have someone to take care of their child while they attend classes

hope this helps

sorry, i'm not pregnant or a mom, so i really don't know what advice is best for you. But i just wanted to say that i'm 17 and also studying Early Childhood Education. Currently pursuing a diploma in that, but i'll advance once i'm done

well good luck on your decision! take care!