I have seen first hand men missing out on the right to be a father because it is what suits the mother!!! This is crap and un fair unless he is abusive or dangerous in any way to safety of your child you SHOULD NOT with hold him contact with HIS child!!!


If there is a good reason to why he should not have contact than do it through the right channels and let the right people (lawyers and judges) make that decision...


I have seen a few un fit mothers twist all they have to prevent the father from his child and it is not a good thing to put your child through, like it was said before your child is entiltled to 2 parents you wont be helping yourself in the long run if you keep the father away, as the child grows up if he or she finds out you refused their father access that can then cause issues for you and your child!!!!


Just think it through do what is right by your child and not what makes you happier!

hope this helps you!!
xoxox

all in all hun you know what sort of man he is and as bexie 08 said a court will decide if he is unfit so if your unhappy with him seeing the child then let the courts sort it out. other than that give him a chance and if he lets your child down then at least you'll know you gave him the chance x