I don't think you're overeacting. Some of the ladies post here appear a bit much to me but especially since you were planning it to be something special I think your fine to be a bit mad over this.

Thank you everyone, I visitied his mum again and she didn't do anything like it again. She was hinting for me to put cows milk in his weetbix this time though... but I stuck to what I wanted him to have though. I heard her make a smart remark to her husband, but I didnt let it worry me this time, because I was in control of the weetbix and formula! lol

So glad I'm not the only one who would be annoyed by this! I think it's more so because I'm "young", 18, and feel like everyone judges and tells me how I should do things.

Thanks again

Shann xx

People, especially mother-in-laws etc just don't think or are just horrible. I say put some exlax in her chocolate biscuit (not the babys' next time or maybe some smooth move tea (laxative). I'm sure she wouldn't mind....just laugh it off if she says anything. O.K, DON'T do that, that's not nice. (nice to daydream though isn't it...) Next time if you're there be firm and say sorry, we don't do that yet. or I'd rather you didn't do that and take it away. Easy to say that, I never know what to say at the time, just after when I have my "daydreams" of the laxatives in her food!!