loving life wrote:

QUOTE:
i feel really sorry for you some people are really mean just because they don't understand the situation doesn't mean they have the right to judge you and to state awful comments. you have the right to state your opinion but to display unfriendly horrid characteristic about others shows that you have no sympathy....If you need some one to talk to manderz message me. you dont kneed Herpes infested MOE-RAWNS in your life!

First, the English lesson...
*I (I is always capitalized)
*Can'tfixthefirstrunonsentancetoomuchneeded (punctuation needs to be corrected through the whole post)
*You(the first word in a dentance is capitalized, again through the whole post)
*characteristics (horrid and unfriendly are plural, not singular)
*someone (all one word)
*don't (you got it right in the beginning?).
*need (you kneed bread, to rub and fold, or you kneed an attacker, past tense of knee)
*herpes (it is not a proper noun)

Now that the English lesson is done, let's move on to History...

You do realize that this post was from a year before you even joined. Do you think, perhaps, there is more to this story than you know?

Check here, http://babynames.allparenting.com/option,com_fireboard/Itemid,50/func,view/id,169872/catid,6/limit,6/limitstart,0/
and here
http://babynames.allparenting.com/option,com_fireboard/Itemid,50/func,view/id,169631/catid,5/limit,6/limitstart,0/
and here
http://babynames.allparenting.com/option,com_fireboard/Itemid,50/func,view/id,169446/catid,6/limit,6/limitstart,0/
and here
http://babynames.allparenting.com/option,com_fireboard/Itemid,50/func,view/id,169446/catid,6/limit,6/limitstart,0/#169402

So, before you jump to judge, you might want to use the little search box up in the corner, do a little research on the people you are pissed off at, and find out what it is all about.

And now, on to Social Studies...
Liars piss me off. When I get pissed off, I get sarcastic and acerbic. When someone continues to lie, I get angry and downright rude. Why do I get that way? Because these little liars that come on here are playing with womens emotions. They like to stir up trouble, get people upset, and sit back and enjoy the aftermath. I don't like that, and neither do most of the real people on here.

Now, here we are at Math...
1 lie + 1 sincere appology = another chance
1 lie + 1 cover up lie + 1 sincere appology = my eye is on you
1 lie + 1 snark fest about why we wont believe your lie = Me bringing the hammer of truth
1 lie + 1 cover up lie + another cover up lieł + 1 snark fest about why we wont believe your lies = Reported

Now dear, you are pretty young, but you have been around long enough to see that we dont go batpoo crazy on everyone, and when we do got batpoo crazy, it is probably for a reason. Chill out and get rid of the creepy Avatar, yikes!

I'm not trying to be miss start some drama but i was sticking up for manderz. Weather she lied or not i still don't think that that gives you a right to be mean too her and to "bully" her. I know that she may be a liar but.. there's still a person behind the computer screen.We had a bulling seminar this year at my school,don't know if you've herd of it, Call Me Jim. Jim told of his life and of his sons death. It was a touching story and frankly i cried, A LOT! The most touching part of the whole story was that he said, "Bullies never remember, Victims never forget." Maybe its some freaky Psycho behind the computer but maybe its a troubled teen who needs reached out to. We don't know. Sorry for the drama i may have caused but i still think that we should be treated with respect all 6,995,865,250... (and counting)of us. Maybe if she didn't lie we could all be sympathetic if she is pregnant or not.


Just think about her feelings also.

The 'person' on the other side of that computer screen has shown no courtesy to me, in fact has insulted my honesty and integrity by having none, and I will not sanction her failure at the price of my morals. Anyone who is insulted by the idea of honesty doesn't deserve my sympathy and I will give them none.

We are not the bullies in this situation. We are simply refusing to be victims.

loving life wrote:

QUOTE:
I'm not trying to be miss start some drama but i was sticking up for manderz. Weather she lied or not i still don't think that that gives you a right to be mean too her and to "bully" her. I know that she may be a liar but.. there's still a person behind the computer screen.We had a bulling seminar this year at my school,don't know if you've herd of it, Call Me Jim. Jim told of his life and of his sons death. It was a touching story and frankly i cried, A LOT! The most touching part of the whole story was that he said, "Bullies never remember, Victims never forget." Maybe its some freaky Psycho behind the computer but maybe its a troubled teen who needs reached out to. We don't know. Sorry for the drama i may have caused but i still think that we should be treated with respect all 6,995,865,250... (and counting)of us. Maybe if she didn't lie we could all be sympathetic if she is pregnant or not.


Just think about her feelings also.

Yes, because she was obviously thinking about all the women who have had to deal with pregnancy loss or who have had to make the torturous decision to have an abortion. She was surely thinking of all the struggling teen moms on here when she confessed her own pregnancy. And of course, first in her mind were the women who would give everything to get pregnant. I mean, she only lied repeatedly, created multiple identities, and harassed members in private messages. The person you are saying we disrespected did not exist. She was a lie from the very beginning.

And by refusing to be victims gives you a green flag to show little to no respect. Literally the only respect you have shown to her is calling her by her name...EVEN THEN YOU DIDN'T! You guys sound nice except for here. You were rude to me and her, weather she be a fake or not. Displaying your opinion is not a crime but cyber bulling is, Weather she be fake or not. SHE'S STILL A PERSON!

Celianne- I under stand were your coming from but people are people. this would be just like me "accusing you of being a fake an distributing it everywhere on line.


Finally- My final thought on the matter is that of Steve Brule:

Kill em with kindness!

We couldn't call her by her name because she never gave us her name, only one lie after the other. And no one cyber bullied her. no one threatened her with any harm. She made the choice to log on here every day and see what pot she had managed to stir up.

If I walked in to your house, started making up lies and telling your family 9 kinds of stories are you saying you would let me stay?