Ha! I guess I was so ready to reply, I didn't even see there was a second page! There is another family picture in particular I'm thinking of, so I'll try to find it. But I hope she will see how terrible it would be of her to be with your son but not your daughter. I would also do like mickey said and insinuate she may not be seeing Kai if she's going to have this kind of attitude. You wouldn't want him to learn to be rude, hateful, hypocritical, and snotty, so he may not see them either.

exactly Alisamber!

Thanks everyone for the comments and advice! It really helped me out.


So I talked it over with my husband and I think we're just going to go ahead and get the paternity test done, but we're also taking Celianne's suggestion and making her pay for the test since she wants to know so badly. When the test comes back positive, which it will, I just want to move on from this. I'm not going to take out my anger on her or anything because of Kai and Cadence, but I think my relationship with her is going to be pretty nonexistent for a while, really how can anyone make up for an accusation like that?

Thanks again everyone for the support, it means a lot to me!

Oh my gosh, that's terrible!! I hope everything turns out all right with you and your mom-in-law!!

That's crazy! Sounds to me like your mother-in-law is just trying to find something to fuss with you about. I agree that you should have the test done just to prove her wrong. Then again if she is going to make such horrid accusations, it might not matter that the paternity test reaveals your husband as the father. I don't think you can please her, so do what you feel is right for your family!