The future mother in law/grandma won't leave me alone with the names!

Okay so after my Ajax idea got shot down I re proposed the name but as the third middle name and with Tristan. As soon as I say Tristan she says "What is the kid a cracker, that sounds like Trisket"?

She's really getting to me and with all the girl names she says "Pick something normal, like Chelsea or Wendy"

I want to include her in the naming process as well but it's going to get to a point when I just walk away and tell her no I'm naming the baby whatever I want.
What should I say to get her off my back?
Am I wrong too?

No, you are not wrong. It is yours and your husband's baby to name, and no one else. If I were you, I might just keep the name to myself and just say, "we're not telling anyone what the name is" and that way you don't have to worry about people's opinions. Unless you do want to continue to include her in naming the baby and then you'll have to continue hearing what her opinions are.

I agree with happy2bme.

This baby belongs to you and your significant other. Not grandma. It may be time for you and your S.O. to say that you have decided to keep the name a secret so you surprise everyone. You can tell her that if she wants to give you a list of her 5 favorite names for a girl and her 5 fave names for a boy,because she likes them or because they have a special meaning, you and your S.O. will look them over and consider them or try to incorporate them, but no promises, because in the end.....it is your baby to name. She already got to name her kids.!! Do it with kindness and love. Yu do not want to alienate at this time.
Good luck!

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I want to include her in the naming process

why? it is your baby, not her. I think that everyone is goint to tell you the sam thing - it is your to name your baby!
she can help, but she doesnt have to terrorize you and tell you what to choose, that this is awfull, this is weird etc.

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What should I say to get her off my back?

say that you wont to name your baby, cause you'll regret after that you didn't name him/her the way that you wanted, but if she continues to bother, ignore her

I agree with the masses. I told everyone what I was naming my first child, and E-V-E-R-Y-O-N-E always has an opinion, and they are NOT SHY about it. I am pregnant again, and I am not telling anyone the name until the baby is born. This is your baby, she had her opportunity to name her own children. The names you picked out are great, and she will get use to it eventually. No worries. Pregnancy is too special to have drama.

Mother in laws can be so annoying. At least you dont have my dillema, my mother in law wants me to name my first daughter after her. HA!