My uncles and cousins most of them have gone into the army and i can't imagine what it was like for my cousins while they had to move around alot.

But my husband works away for certain periods of times some can even be 9 months on a business trip, i hate it so much and we have 3 children hoping for another and it took me awhile to adjust and the children hated it and they never got used to the fact they're daddy was away, so they were on the phone to him nearly every night asking when he was coming home and i did'nt want my children growing up and their dad was'nt around much so he quit and got an exact same job but closer to home and know everything's fine.

But while he was away it is hard and stressful expecially with a child some i have seen have got 6 like bradybunch and i could'nt applaud her anymore she is so brave, it must be hard but she's got through it so you can to. Just remember it's you and your family he comes home to at the end of it all.

Thanks but with twins on the way and I already have 2 boys, rasisng 4 by myself , I just dont think I could do it, its hard enought now at his job when he's gone from 7am to 11pm anf not having him for weeks, months would just kill us. I do think he is reconsidering but I really dont want him to do it, call me selffish but I grew up with my dad around sometimes and sometimes nowhere to be found for weeks , and I dont want to have that with our children.

Brieal