I have a 14 and 11 year old age gap is good 3 years one month 6 days

I was divorced when I was 7 months pregnant with my 11 year old he was involved

I was divorced 8 years and I am now remarried

I ahve an 18 months old and I am 5 months pregnant

I am done and they will they will be 11 months apart

There is 2yrs & 3mths between me and brother, we have always been very close and shared everything as a child. Still are to this day we are close! My mum re-married and went on to have my youngest brother, they is 13yrs between me and him, and 11 yrs between him and my brother. I think that age gap is too big, as i have nothing in common with him what-so-ever neither does my brother.. which i think is very sad for him as he has no other siblings to grow up close with- like me & my other brother had.
All he has is a older sister & brother who are going to act like second parents- haha.


I have a 18mth old daughter, my husband would love another child now- as he is from a big, close family but i have decided the time is not right just yet, due to work ect & money. So we have decided to try again when she is just over 2yrs. A age gap of 2 & half yrs will be perfect for me!!

My mom has four kids and the first three are all three years apart between us and the last two are only 18 months apart. she said that was hard and loved the three year difference. I will like my son and future next child have either 3 to 4 year age gap. To me I think that is perfect that way my son can be a baby by himself and enjoy his one on one time with his mommy before a sibiling comes into the picture. Plus he is such a good baby im afraid if I have another so soon that he will act out and not be as good so by wanting till hes mature enough to have a sibling he will still be good and well behaved. But thats just me everyone is different