I would just like to say for one that it is getting really old all the drama that is being posted on here for example the abortion issues, the attacks on the younger mothers that are here looking for advice from older members because they are afraid or unsure of asking their own families for information about pregnancy.
I thought we were supposed to be here to help others out and provide helpful information not personal attacks on other members of the website.
I have noticed there are quite a few treads on here that have been very negative and hurtful to others and I find it to be extremely immature. I don't know about the rest of you but I was always told if you can not say anything nice not to say anything at all.
Thanks for your time,
Jessica

Agreed.

what ever happened to if you cant say anything nice, dont say anything at all.

the abortion threads should not be here, it is a personal opinion and choice. if somebody asks, sure you can tell them how you feel and why, but maybe it should be im a private message. i have seen this topic get way too heated to many times. my opinion is my own, and it is a very personal choice that every woman must make for herself. making someone feel bad for making what they feel is the right choice, on any subject, whether you think it is right or not, is mean.

i came here at first seeking advice on naming my baby. i am still here because there is a sense of community, to some extent. but sometimes it seems more like a lynch mob. there's been 3 abortion threads lately. maybe just one is enough. i didnt come here to fight. and im sure nobody else set out to either.

yes Puck that is exactly what I am saying abortion is not a happy topic and this is supposed to be a place to get information about pregnancy, baby names, and advice about parenting. Not forcing other peoples personal opinions on other people.
According to the Law women are allowed to choose and that is a known fact some agree and some do not but that is the way it is until the laws are changed. I am not saying I agree or disagree with abortion but I feel there is a time and a place for that discussion and this is not the place for it.

i hope other people are reading this as well... there is so much drama here, i have considered leaving, and i know some others have too. i hope we can stop, or at least keep the madness to a minimum.

that was the idea I had when I posted this