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By brightblue 3 Years, 7 Months Ago
You are definitely not over reacting. He should not be looking at that crap. Ever. It's a form of cheating.

Everything starts with a thought. No one steals something without thinking about it first. It won't stop him from physically cheating - if anything it will encourage it. Honestly, no marraige needs porn. A man that truely loves and respects his wife won't want, much less need "variety". Men needing "variety" is a ton of crap. I know plenty of couples who has been married a long time(10+years, 20+plus years) of don't have and have never had an issue with porn - as in it's not watched- never was, never will be.

Not wanting that crap in your life/relationship is not neive. Watching porn is immature and selfish.

I would talk to him about it. Especially because it is with teens. Tell him why you don't like it and the concerns you have. If he gets mad about you finding out that just proves that what he is doing is wrong. If it wasn't, he wouldn't be doing it behind your back. If anything, he should be ashamed of watching it.
Last Edit: 2008/10/20 14:50 By brightblue.
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By Emily_G 3 Years, 7 Months Ago
StephanieAnne wrote:
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Oh, I see. There are some bible beaters on this forum. That explains quite a lot actually. Read the Song of Songs.


I'm just a Bible believer and follower Any particular part of Songs?
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By DONE GOODBYE genevra 3 Years, 7 Months Ago
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By brightblue 3 Years, 7 Months Ago
daisies110 wrote:
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Okay, eeww! Is someone going to delete this post already? It's PERVERTED and UNNECCESSARY. Just don't 'do it' or get 'in the mood' at all unless you want to get pregnant, woman! Geez Louise, all I'm askin here is for a little dignity so could you not! PM someone if you want to chat about pervish needs! Gosh...:angry:


The word "immature" comes to mind when reading the above reply. If we can't go to other women with our concers - who else is there? Men?
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By brightblue 3 Years, 7 Months Ago
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It's surprising to me how many women have such negative and ignorant views on pornography. Porn is a part of a healthy sex life, along with doldoes, anal beads, and other toys. We even keep amyl nitrate in the drawers next to the bed with all the other goodies.

We have three collections of porn. One is mine that I watch alone, one is his which he watches alone, and one is "ours" which we watch together. Of course his collection is bigger than mine and "ours" put together, but so what? After I gave birth to our son I didn't feel in the mood for sex for over 2 months. I'm glad he had his porn so he would bother me about blow jobs or anything else when I wasn't feeling up for it.

The women on here who object so passionately to porn come across as terribly naive, and even somewhat uneducated. I find it hard to believe that any university-educated woman could be so intollerant. Of course no one can say that everyone has to like porn, but to take such a negative attitude toward everything that you don't like yourself just shows your ignorance and intollerance.

And I seriously believe that if some of you weren't such prudes, your partners might be more satisfied sexually. Vanilla sex is nice, but it gets boring after a while. I suggest you spice it up in bed a bit.


"Naive, uneducated, ignorant and intolerant and prudes" - umm, no. Just smart enough to recognize that porn is perverted. Not all men do it and no one needs to. It is a sign of complete immaturity and lack of self control on the part of the person engaging in it.

and StephanieAnne - you are wrong. She isn't the one with the problem and she didn't cause it. Her husband is the one with the problem and he needs to grow up.
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By brightblue 3 Years, 7 Months Ago
StephanieAnne wrote:
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Emily, you have a very unhealthy relationship.



Actually, her relationship sounds very healthy. Healthier then a lot I have seen represented on here. And not all of us who are “university educated” are so degraded by men and other women as to think porn is ok in any form. Porn is not part of a healthy relationship. And it is not just women who find porn offensive and wrong.
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