I also so forgot to say at least hes not cheating and yes as long as hes watching porn chances are high that he wont cheat.

Also yes your friend is right. We wemon dont understand it at all but this is very normal especially if there in a long life relationship. It sounds so stupid but it does keep them from cheating. But he was so wrong for not sharing this from you and keeping it from your back. My husband tells me everytime before he does it even though we have a very healthy and active and very good sexually relationship

Sorry just re read my opinion, was kind of werid, was pre occupied with Seth.
What id do actually
is confront him and tell him what you've told us basically.

Havent really experienced this type of dilema so cant really help sorry

Brieal

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Ok I was really hoping yu had a accunt so I culd talk to you about this matter privately because I dont want people to jugde me. Have long have you been married andtogether for?

first off I want you to know I 100 percent agree with you yes I think its disrespectful and offensive.

But this is how it was explained to me. Men no atter what age will always have sex on there mind. Men watchin porn is a way to keep them from cheating. Its not neccarily the sex but watching porn well the girls stuff that way he doest get tired of the same um whats a none graffic word we'll call it kitty cat. Because they will have the same kitty cat for the rest of there lives and watching porn will keep them from gettin bord of the same thing and same kitty. Yes I know this sounds rediculous and awlful and kinda imature. I think that he was wrong for keeping this away from you. Just sit down and talk to him and have him expain it to you.

We have been together for 6 years. We started dating when I was 17 and he was 30 (don't worry, in my state the age on consent is 16, so it was perfectly legal). We got married when I was 19 and I gave birth to our first child, a daughter, 4 months later.

I think its very disrespectful and I can't believe men are such pigs! Thats what one of my friends told me too, and I couldn't and still can't believe it. I still have hope that there are some guys out there who don't feel the need to go behind their wives backs and watch porn.

I just wish my hubby didn't have to watch porn. I understand him pleasuring himself, but is the porn really necessary??

*sigh* now i'm just fed up with men!

Yes it is totally disqusing and disrespectful and yes men are pigs. But alot of men dont go behind there backs and watch porn. I think hes just starting because you guys have been together for awhile now but its still just sick I think.
Women would never have to watch porn to keep themselves from cheating in fact we like the idea of having the same uh penis for the rest of our lives

men do have needs, yes. if you have the internet, porn is pretty much unaviodable. and it is a better option than cheating. but there has to be a limit. this is the agreement my husband and i have.

he can watch porn, but he must never lie to me about it or hide it.
is is a personal private thing and it is not to be shared with friends (we have a friend who is rather....open about his porn use and i do not think it is a group activity) it must be kept in a locked unaccessible folder so no kids can see it.

i think u r over reacting just a little. at the end of the day its just porn! at least he isnt cheating. why dont u just bring watchin porn together up in conversation and see what he says. he might just say 'yeah ive got some on my computer u might like' or say 'but we dont have any'. then u wont have to admit to going through his computer. i dont think u can class it as lying to u by not telling you. did you look at the dates they were downloaded??? maybe it was just recent and he was going to tell you but it just slipped his mind. porn is just porn either way men have to pleasure themselves somehow when us women arent around and personally id rather he watched porn than went with another woman. i say watch it with him and enjoy yourself, and dont over react.

Hi its Scott, do you mean I have to tell Joey I watch it?