Thank you again really- it is much appreciated.

I'm always happy to help someone. Message me if you want some more advice,baby names,etc.

I would talk to him about it now since the man you are with is willing to take over the care of the baby you are carrying

i would flat out ask him to give up his rights to the baby before you even have it he sounds like a jerk and that he doesn't care about the baby anyway and it would be letting him off the hook so he may be willing to sign off on the baby

Honestly, I was thinking the same thing. I didnt want the bio father of my child to be in our childs life. Only because he abused me and mistreated me. He hurt me so badly that I couldnt even love him the same.I mean I still loved and cared for him but I just got tierd of him hurting me.(this went on for 7 years). Do you think that I am wrong?

What if I don't get in touch with him at all and just see what happens and tell him at the time if and when he does get in touch with me- do you think that would be good or bad- I just really don't want to talk to him at all- he just sort of scares me now- somehow in talking to him just thinking back he makes himself out to look good and the finger is pointed at you- somehow he does that and I just would rather not talk to him but I know oneday I will but I just don't want to right now while I'm preparing to have the baby anyday now- what are your thoughts?

I think that you shouldnt call him and don't let him get to you like that, you are going to be a good mother and i bet everyone on here agrees.

Don't get in touch with him and if he does get in touch with you tell him what you think first then let him speak.

Stacey.xx