Hello,

This is Happtohelps, sister in law, she has let me on this site to ask abit about something. I am 14

I have 2 friends which i am very close to and one was talking about when she leaves school she wants to have a baby, and she wants me and my other mate to move in with her into a flat we can get together.
Well every girl has the dream of living with they're friend but it does'nt always come true, it would be lovely if it did but do u think planning for a baby this early is a bit stupid, she wants to study 2 years and have a baby within then.
I have'nt told her this but obviously i would be there for her , we are so close. We live next door to eachother aswell so i can see her whenever i want.

What do you think?

i think it is insane to plan a baby that young. things do happen, but to plan for that is not right. i had my first baby right outta high school, and it was not planned. how does she plan on studying and having a baby? they take up so much of your time. does she realise how much easier it will be if she is married and has a man willing to help? family court is not somewhere anyone really wants to be. try to talk some sense into het, please. if you are a true friend, you would tell her how crazy you think this is.

She plans to do a year of studying then have the baby. and she has a family with a lot of money so she thinks it is fine. I did tell her how stupid it was but she has her heart set on it. But i will try and talk some sense into her.

its not such a bad thing been pregnant so young if you have a willing partner that is committed. and helps if he is older. i am pregnant am just 17 last month. it wasnt planned but i have wanted a baby young all my life. now i am pregnant i think its the best thing that happened to me an its settled me. still at high school..

you're right mummy2b, but as you said it wasnt planned. this girl is planning to have a baby young, there is no partner in the picture, she is just being silly.

No there is a partner in the picture her boyfriend of 3 years