whoops, ignore, double post!

I agree with everyone else. You don't deserve to be treated that way, when you're having a baby, which is such a beautiful thing!

He just has to realize that you're still the same person that you were before, and you two can have the same relationship, only better. Oh, and he has to stop being an asshole!

Then again, if I were you personally, I wouldn't want to spend my time and energy trying to get him back. Instead, I agree with what Missushump said before. Just try and create a positive space for you and your baby.

Maybe try and get some friends of yours to help you paint your home, to make it more yours. Try and get some cheap furniture at garage sales, or thrift stores, and get your life back. If you decide that you are going to forget about him and just move on, then I wish you the best of luck. If you don't, then hopefully he can pull it together! Good luck!

Thanks for the response that u guys r givin, it is appreciated. I hope that u'll don't misunderstand the line when i wrote that 'i felt like a terrible mom and begged for his forgivness'. It was my baby that i was asking that of, not my bf. Just thought i should let u'll now so it wouldn't be confusing.