i would send em to a motel...

better yet why dont you talk to her mother to mother??

failing that send Ryan to stay with them, if he wants to see them at that time so bad?

but u dont eed all that hustle and bustle when u first bring ur preemie & highly sensative babes home...
and if she has any kind of sense she will understand

Seaason

This is what Ryan said more or less.

Natalia, I don't know if your aware but we have two little girls that are premie, all that stuff costs money. This house has a morgage, food is money. You get it?
Hotels are expensive.
They are staying here, I don't care what you say, you and Ella can stay upstairs and me and my brothers we'll be downstairs.


SO now I'm in some what of trouble and he's offended and he says he's probaly just going to go to Arizona for Thanksgiving because I'm "difficult"

sounds to me like Ryan need to grow up and consider whats important..... if anyone realises that u have 2 preemie girls its you... your there every day....
i think he woud be more considerate of your mental helath at this point coz from where im standing ur border line PND, and he is NOT making things easier...
if he wants to go to Arizona, let him, that way you can settle in with ur girls at home and when he gets back you will have both had some time to think..
does your mum live near by? could she or some "motherly type" person in ur life come to help you while hes gone?...
plant your feet girl... stand firm...
this is the time when you need to consider whats best for NATALIA, SHEA & ELLA!!!!!!

Seaason

I so agree with every word your said Seaasons...........Natalie, did you show Ryan our entries, did he read them himself? Does he respect any of our words? He's probably pissed at me, for lecturing him about not seeing his babies in the hospital.

But, he does seem to realize you have two premie babies - are they all wanting to come down to see them, in the hospital - is that why they are all coming down to see you, for Thanksgiving. Does Ryan know how to cook, for a crew - or even considered that feeding all those people at your place, will actually cost more than a hotel room? Did Ryan invite them, or did they invite themselves?

Again, everything Seaasons said, I agree with. What she said!

- Genevra

I would go stay somewhere else since he wants them down here so badly. I wouldnt want my baby being exposed to all those germs either!