So maybe it's this whole being pregnant, thing that's making me upset, but when i come to think of this subject, it just makes me feel worse, my son/daughter, is gonna have to grow up without a dad, for sometime, until i marry someone, some people, like his mom for an example thinks i should let jason around the baby, but i don't trust him, he's made threats to kill the baby, and i'm not risking anything. :/ what do you think i should do? let jason be around the baby, even though he's raped me, and another girl, who was also pregnant, months earlier, but lost hers. i'm so confused,and upset, i just don't even know what do with anymore. :/

No offense, Im going to be completely honest!

NO PIG WHO RAPES ANY FEMALE DESERVES TO SEE THE BABY
That guy deserves to be casterated.

I know, this is hard. One of my friends is sort of going threw the same situation... except she wasnt raped. However she is a single pregnant beautiful woman... and i bet so are you. You deserve better that this. No one deserves this.

HOW DARE HE THREATn an innocent child. Im sorry but after all of that i would never let that man see MY baby. I know it is going to a little more difficult to raise a baby on your own. but you are a STRONG WOMAN, look how far you have come already. If he is going to be this way you cannot help it. i would rather my child not know there dad. WHat kind of example could he be for this baby? absolutely not.
He is just lucky he doesnt know me- because gurl i would kick his ass no joke.
i know some of what you are going threw. My sons dad is a complete jerk, like i was pregnant and he is an alcoholic. Well he beats me when he is drunk, so i lost that child and have been heart broken ever since. Not only because i have a one year old who is used to seeing daddy, but losing a child is horrible. Please believe we deserve better. && if you need anything you can always talk to me!! i may not have all the answers course i am only 20 but i am a good listener much love && keep yahh head up like you gotta nose bleed<--WeezY F. Babyy

thanks a lot! i've been upset for awhile now, and i'm kind of tired of people feeling sorry for him, that, he should be able to be around the baby, or the baby's gonna have mental health issues. :/

The baby will NOT have mental health issues if they cant see Jason he is a pig he doesnt deserve to see your beautiful child even after they turn 3 i say NEVER

Ugh, Just because he has something wrong with him doesnt mean your baby is going to also have that. He has some of your genes too && plus he or she is going to have a wonderful mommy Actually some mental behaviors can be inflicted from child hood tragedies... such abuse from parents. In which case if he does have some sort of mental behavior- why dont his parents keep handle on him? or is he just saying that because he feels guilty for what he did and doesnt want to come to except it. im sure he knew what he was doing whether he knew if it was wrong or not is something else, however it does sound a little fishy to me

&& in any case. I still dont feel sorry for him.
I feel bad for you. and im so PROUD OF YOU!! it takes a very strong woman to keep a child that wasnt planned and came from a tragic situation. I however would do the same, since in no way is it an innocent childs fault. However i am commending you on what an amazing person you are!

Since this child wasnt necessarily meant to be im sure GOD meant it as a blessing. Everything happens for a reason, we dont always understand why at that time or never will but deep down there is a purpose for everything.

&& the world better be ready, because your child is going to bless it! it just doesnt know it yet