me and my husband are 7 weeks pregnant and we have had our first ultrasound and everything and he is still whining about me keeping the baby and not wanting the baby. When i asked about it he said he was just confused and had mixed emotions about having a second child. This pregnancy was completely unplanned. Will this pass, because it is really starting to put a wedge in our marriage, because i dont want to go the rest of my life with him hanging this over me like a little black cloud. I just want him to quit tryin to put the guilt trip on me...can anybody give me any words of wisdom because i could really use them...he is really starting to depress me.

The only thing you can do is just keep talking to him and telling him how you feel and hope it sinks in. Just don't keep it bottled up.

well i think you should tell him how you really feel don't really listen to what he said. I now its hard but its going to be o.k just work things out and talk to him one on one?

i keep telling him that abortion isnt an option and that he needs to except that. Everytime i try to talk to him about it he tells me to shut up and gets defensive. I dont know what to think...he wont listen long enough for me to tell him that he is breaking my heart and hurting my feelings. He makes me feel like being pregnant is my fault and i told him it takes 2 to get pregnant. I told him that if he didnt change how he was acting i didnt know where this marriage was going. I explained to him that he doesnt have to stay with me but i do expect help with buying things for the baby. I just dont know what to do.

THE SAME THING WITH MY HUSBEND HE WANTS ADOPTION OF ONE OF MY UNBORN TWINS YOU HAVE TO STIK WITH WHAT YOU THINK OR YOULL REGRET IT YOUR WHOLE LIFE tell him even if he wont listen hope it works out and all goes well

Have the baby and if your husband doesn't stick around he isn't worth it anyway. You'll find someone better for you. BUT Most MEN, "REAL MEN" will finally come around when they hold that little one in their arms for the first time AND later think why was I so stupid to be against having another bundle of joy.