Lindsey T wrote:

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Alisamber is right in saying that you should pray hard. Do what you can to keep the relationship together, you don't want Noah to grow up with a broken family like everyone else.

Like everyone else?

What exactly are you implying?

madisonhope wrote:

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Lindsey T wrote:

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Alisamber is right in saying that you should pray hard. Do what you can to keep the relationship together, you don't want Noah to grow up with a broken family like everyone else.

Like everyone else?

What exactly are you implying?

Fact: 50% of all marriages fail. I know Shann isn't married to her baby's father yet but (in my opinion) they should try to make it work. Although I don't believe two people should stay together for the sole reason that they have a child, it's usually a better environment for the child to grow up with parents who are together and love each other.

Hello, again. I totally agree with Lindsey T. And pretty much all the posts combined. The thing is, you want to be with him forever because y'all love each other, right? At the same time, you don't want to be a pushover, or have these huge issues, or not feel like you're everything to him. And you want the baby to grow up in a happy family. (Everyone now sing the Barney song in your head!) None of us are perfect, and this is obviously a problem for him (and you). He probably thinks you have a glaring imperfection that bugs him, too. You definitely need to keep the lines of communication open, talk often about how it affects you, you two, and you three in the short and long run. Maybe you could both work on something together, like he takes the pictures down and tries not to look at porn and stuff, and at the same time, you work on something to better yourself. Encourage and support each other and hold each other accountable. And pray to know God's will for your lives. Take care! Let us know how things go.

First of all, thank you everyone.

I haven't gone to his house yet this week because I told him if i see them again I will just get upset. I said again I am not going until they are removed. He has also said he will take them down when he has car posters or something to replace them.
He isnt into porn or anything... just doesnt want bare walls... apparently.

I want us to figure this out asap.. and I agree with all of these posts! I told him if it takes him forever to replace or remove the posters, it is his fault if Noah and I don't come to stay until then. I usually cave in with this kind of stuff... but now I'm a mummy, I have had to toughen up alot more. So i'm not going to give in. He knows I've been going through a rough time, as my mum has recently been diagnosed with MS. (which I dont really know anything about.. if anyone knows anything about it I would be grateful)

I will continue to pray that he will take them down for the right reasons, and soon!

shann wrote:

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my mum has recently been diagnosed with MS. (which I dont really know anything about.. if anyone knows anything about it I would be grateful)

I don't know too much about it, but my grandma had MS and she died in 2006. She didn't die from MS, she died from cancer. She had a hard time getting around; she had to use a walker. Other than that, I don't really know much about it. I just remember all of the happy times with her I know that my family donates to the MS Society here, too If you have specific questions, I may be able to answer them.

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I don't know too much about it, but my grandma had MS and she died in 2006. She didn't die from MS, she died from cancer. She had a hard time getting around; she had to use a walker. Other than that, I don't really know much about it. I just remember all of the happy times with her I know that my family donates to the MS Society here, too If you have specific questions, I may be able to answer them

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Thank you. It's just that I don't know anyone else who has it, so I really do not know what to expect as it becomes worse. She alerady finds it hard to walk. I'm not sure what else it does though.


Oh and some good news! posters should be down next week cannot wait!