LilyA. not all people think that all teens are bad. I don't. I just think they lack the ability to make mature adult decisions right now. They are at an inbetween age. They are becoming adults, but are not there yet. And their way of thinking will change as they get older. What they want now will not be what they want 10 or 15 years from now.

And this post is for parents who want their children to wait, and are trying to find advice on how to help them wait; I'm not talking about parents who hand their kids birth control because in that case, you are giving them the go ahead.

okay...i'm sorry i dont want to be by any means hurtful or rude but i dont know how you were raised or what kind of morals you have but or if you have any common sense..would you rather your child to protect safe sex if any sex....my son hasnt had sex trust me i'd know but for real are you kidding? you must not have any connections with teeagers that are normal because most kids dont have sex okay they dont!!!! i'm in my office right now and i'm soo heated i'm not saying its okay to go and screw around..

I don't understand what you are saying. Most kids don't have sex cause they don't? What do you mean?
And yes, I do have connection with lots of teenagers. Teenagers do not have to have sex to be "normal". I'm sure lots of teens would say that, but for a parent to say that?

like would you rather your kid have protective sex or unprotective sex? i dont think thats giving the okay by saying use prtected sex but whatever
no i'm not saying normal teens are ones that have sex what i'm saying do you have contact with teens that go to regular public school and dont go to church every sunday or at all?