Thanks ladies!
Emily & Jadis- I've uploaded the photo, finally lol. I do have a pair of skinny jeans, I wear them with brown boots, but in the winter I don't like wearing them because they leave butterfly marks in the snow from the print on the sole, I have to buy size 4 from the kids because usally they are sold out of 5 and 5&1/2's.
Shann- I had long hair down to my eldows, then cut it to my chin in a bob style, now it sits above my bra line, long hair I think makes me look older. (also I don't like short hair lol). But I'm going to buy more "sophisticated" tops probably without the patterens or prints on them, maybe solid colours? And better fitted.
Gracie B- "Most importantly dress what you want to dress like and what makes you feel comfortable. I would try going out of the box a little to what you normally wear and how you do your hair and make up but whatever you choose you need to feel sexy and good about yourself! If you decide you want to change what you wear, your hair and make up remember it will take some time to get use to! Good luck and be yourself!!" Thanks! I guess it's time to not worry so much about what other people think. I'm 19 for crying out loud, I should dress alittle sexy. Your right. My Ma's boyfriend told me that he likes women who are sexy but have class. I'm going to try to go out of the box.
Thanks again ladies!

Only a pleasure! You'll be just fine! Looking at your photo, not knowing everything you've told us, I would say you look about 17... I would never put you younger than 16.

I think all the girls suggestions here are pretty much along the same lines... and you're right, you're almost 20, time for you to play around and find 'YOU'

I can say that only from about the age of 26, did I really 'find' myself but you're growing all the time... Enjoy it!