I like both names, their both modern. I dont know any jaydens and 1 jude

Of all those names Julian wins by ten miles.

I'm a bit of a J-Name 'fan' except for Julian, I find it not very masculine-sounding, I think 'Hey Jude' was written for Julian Lennon) so if you like the "J's" too just give us a yell.
As a guy on here once said: "Can you see a 70 year old man being called Kaydon, Jaydon, Braydon ...!!" and I tend to agree and look ahead. (however, that is not the subject here )

well i just love the name julian, but the dad is still finghting for jude.. which i like, but i just want us to find a name that we both love.

thanks,

penny

I totally understand your problem. My husband and i had our personal favorites and neither of us wanted to budge so tried compromising until by accident we found a name we both loved. Taking both Jude and Julian off the table might make finding a name you both will adore easier. Personally though i dont like any of the names that have been suggested thus far, but clearly our personal tastes in names differs substantially. Good luck.

well thanx. its good to know other peoples opinions. && i honestly think it would be a great idea to take all the names off, so we can both find the perfect name that we both are in love with!

thank you,

penny