I think that when you have a miscarriage, that is some thing you will always remember, and a new baby does not replace the one you had lost, but it will still bring just as much happiness into your life. My mother had a miscarriage, I’m not entirely sure wether it was in between my brother and I because I always thought it might hurt a bit to talk about it, but I had always wondered what her life would be like if she had had that child, and I had never existed. I some times can’t wrap my head around not existing.

But no, I don’t believe that the baby that miscarried is the same as the next, is physically impossible - Unless you want to get into spirituality but yeah, I personally don’t believe in god so I cant agree with 'god put me here instead of them for a reason'. It's just the way things turned out.

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