Not at all, this is total normal but i'm sure this was the baby you were meant to have.

you aren't selfish, you're human. I hope you have a healthy baby boy.

i am expecting my first.... 1st scan they said 'girl' 2nd scan, ' boy' i was sooooo upset and still am!! girls have way cuter names, clothes, hair, etc. etc. but like everyone says i should be happy the baby is healthy that's more important. but i hate to admit i'm still disappointed!

LOL

Iam just the opposite I have 2 girls 14 and 11, I have a 18 month old son, I wanted a boy we both did but we are definitely having a girl

I am beginning to accept the fact and I am beginning to enjoy it

It will get better I am due in February my husband really wanted another boy this is our last one-- we had the name picked out too it would have been Seth Garrett
instead it is Madeleine Kennedy my husband really doesn't like the middle name but he had vetoed everything else

Thank you everyone, you made me feel a lot better.

Are you planning on having another after this?

I just love baby boys but after having three boys I agree im sure it would have been nice to have a girl but dont worry everything happens for a reason.
My moms cousin had three boys and desperatly wanted a girl so they tired just one more time and had twin boys! Lol well the youngest which are the twins are like 17 now and she recently adopted a girl and that turned out perfectly cus the birth mother was a drugie and just awlful so she now has her girl even though she starting all over again