The community I live in is fairly new and a lot people are moving in. Today I met a new neighbor she had 9 kids and was pregnant again, she gave me her holiday card and I have it next to me she named them Mary (9) Clifton and Zachary (5), David (4 1/2) Sara and Cade (4) Evan (3) Veronica (19 mo) and Laura 9 months and she's 7 months pregnant.

I asked her why she had so many kids and she said oh you know it just happens. Than I told her about my family situation and she said why don't I go and get busy and try for another one...personally I think she has too many too close!!!!
What do you think?

IMO, yes...but whatever works out for them. Personally, I'd like to see more large families adopting...but I know that's easier said than done.

I totally agree with you Natalia. You have two lovely girls to raise first, please don't let her influence you on making a serious committment, like having another baby.

Oh dear thats scary....i'm one of 12 but thats half, adopted and step siblings. having 10 under 10 would drive me batty!! and their grocery bill has got to be REALLY scary!! but if they can afford it and thats what works for em then go them. goodluck with 10-20. lol. like those people on Discovery Health.

I came from a big family. I loved it and still do! I have 5 big brothers Arthur Louis, Aaron John, Andrew Michael, Adam James, Alan Kyle and 2 sisters Heidi and Gretchen. I always had someone to blame and learned to get along with the world right from the womb.

I agree with the too close part im not as sure about the too many i have 5 brothers & 2 sisters as well & it may have been loud but it was almost always fun & ive never thought it was too manu in fact if i could be sure they would be girls i wouldnt mind a couple more!
Can i ask how does she have two 5 year olds a 4 1/2 & two 4 year olds? Im assuming the 4yo twins came early but the other ages have me confused