Last night well technically this morning around 3:30 I got a phone call saying two of my best friends of my all time best friends i have known my whole entire life had been killed in car accident. It happened around 730 their time (they live in italy.) so 1:30 am eastern time. They were married and have a set of twins who are 12 months old a boy and a girl.
The babies weren't with them... they were on their way home from a hotel they spent their 2 year wedding anniversary at... i don't know where the twins were... i wasn't told.
We are the twins godparents and in Elisa and Leo's will Nic and i get the twins... which we will gladly do. They would of done it for us.
And all of that just sucks beyond belief and im way to pregnant to fly on an airplane to go to the funeral.
I haven't stopped crying since i found out the news so my parents took the boys for the day... and Nic and i are at home talking about custody of the babies plus the arrival of the triplets plus the boys and my siblings and the stress of a new house and then paying for Ella's college starting in august and the house and the renovations and painting and furniture... Too many things for a prgnant women to handle.


im sorry i had to vent. Nic won't let me get a word out cause everytime i say something he's like "you think im not thinking about that either" and i don't wanna call anyone cause they will come rushing over and i can't handle anyone over.

I am so so so so sorry! That's awful! If you ever need to talk you can PM me.

Sometimes, most of the times, life is unfair, good people die and others who aren't so good just don't that's just the way it is.
I'm really sorry for your loss, it's always awful when we lose someone we love.
I think your friends would understand your situation and i don't think they'd like you to go to Italy while your pregnant, they'd want the best for you.
I know, nothing i or someone else says will make you feel good but you have to be strong now specially if you want to keep her babies.
I wish you all the best and once again i'm really sorry for your loss but life goes on and will always be unfair and we have to deal with it.

I am soooo sorry for what happened

Wish you the best

Omg!! Thats horrible! I dont know what to say, as I'm not the best person for symphathy, but I wish you the best. *hugs*

I'm so sorry for your loss! That's terrible.